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== '''German Funerary Customs and Practices''' ==
How is the deceased to be buried:
in In a coffin and in a grave? Is the body to be cremated, put in an urn and rest in a wall? Will the grave be anonymous? How long is the deceased to occupy a grave? Traditionally people were buried in church yards and their graves would remain there forever, provided it was looked after. The time came when the church could or would no longer maintain all graves. The local administration then provided plots outside the city/village boundaries. The graves there would be rented for a certain time (15 to 30 years).
In the past, the dead were buried by different rules. Before mortuaries and undertakers, neighbors and friends helped out. The body was washed, dressed and laid out in the parlor. People mourned their dead by wearing black. According to some practices a widow had to wear black 1-5 years (some wore it for the rest of their life). Parents and in-laws were required to wear black for 1 year, so were children. Grandchildren wore black for 6 months. Germans differentiate between “tiefe Trauer” and “stille Trauer” showing by outward signs how the death of a loved one affects them and what importance they thought they must place on the burial ritual. Most people could afford to only bury their dead without elaborate ceremonies and have the death registered in the local church book. Many of these entries consist of one line, giving very scanty information.
Burial records are kept with the local cemetery administration. They are usually under the jurisdiction of the city and can be found under category “Bürgerservice” (service to citizens), “Friedhof” (cemetery), “Grünflächen” (open space) etc. The records contain death and burial date of the deceased, age, relationship to father/ husband/ wife and the number of the burial plot in whatever cemetery.
{{Place|== Marriage Customs == After the 30 Years War, the German population decreased by almost thirteen million.  The majority of the people at that time were mostly female.  As a result, in 1650 a law was created which allowed men to have two wives.  This law was set up for 10 years and men who had assets and didn't marry were punished.  The purpose, of course, was to re-populate the land.  This information is from the Bavarian area of Nuernberg.  Source: BGN Bd 1, Heft 9 3/2008 page 169  In areas of Germany}} e.g. Lippe, the farms were held in the Family name and passed on to the oldest son leaving the remaining sons without a farm.  There were occasions where the oldest/only child was a girl.  She would seek out a male, who would not inherit their Family farm, to marry on condition that he would change his last name to her Family name thus she got to keep the Family farm and her husband now had a farm.  This custom was not uncommon in other areas and countries where land passed by custom to oldest son.
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